"The object-cause of desire," Julian explained. "It’s not the object we desire; it’s the cause of our desire. It’s the ghost of that original wholeness we lost. I look at you, and I don't just see Elena. I see the potential for my own completion. I project that onto you. I think, 'If she loves me, I will be whole.' But it’s a fantasy."
Yet, despite—or because of—these flaws, Lacan remains indispensable. He forces us to ask the question that mainstream psychology fear "The object-cause of desire," Julian explained
Lacan was expelled from the International Psychoanalytical Association (IPA) in 1963 for his unorthodox practice: the "variable-length session." He would famously end an analysis after a few minutes or, conversely, after a few seconds, cutting off a patient mid-sentence to force an eruption of the unconscious. I look at you, and I don't just see Elena
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